Kids and Pet Care

Depending on the age of the child, research about their pet of choice must take place and this needs to be lead by the child, so that they fully appreciate the impact a pet can have on their lives. Review this information as a family and discuss the pros and cons of the sort of pet that's up for discussion. Also, this is a good time to bring up the issue of cost, both for acquiring the pet and for feeding and grooming, possible spaying or neutering, vaccinations and licensing. Again, wise parents will stress the degree of commitment and responsibility required and possibly request a reasonable monetary contribution by the children.

If you ask any group of children to come up with the top five things they want most, invariably that list will encompass some type of pet. And yet, if you ask this exact group of kids how many of them have (or have had) pets, you'll be amazed to discover that most, if not all, already have (or have had) a pet. Pressed further, you may also find a marked lack of enthusiasm and interest in their current or past pet experiences, and an adamant assurance that things would be different, if only their parents would give in to their demands.

Movies and TV shows seem to glorify the concept of 'a boy and his dog' or 'a small girl and her pony', yet allot of parents note a marked contrast from what is depicted and the actuality of the situation. Just as with a new toy, a new pet can invoke promises of everything from proper pet care to great behavior. Sadly, the novelty of a new pet wears off just as quickly, and many a parent is left to deal with a forgotten dog, or a kitten that isn't quite as cute when it scratches.

So what can parents do when the subject of kids and pet care comes up, as it certainly will' Several parents can stave off the subject while the kids are smaller, promising that at a vague point in the future, when the kids are older, they may mention the issue again. Of course, this may only hold them off for so long. Ultimately, the issue of pet care may come up again, and invariably at an increased rate and strength. At this point, parents are smart to sit down with their kids and have a earnest discussion about the commitment and care involved in taking on the responsibility of a pet care. Bear in mind, that in their excitement at the mere fact that the topic is even being talked about, your kids will likely promise to and agree to nearly anything. But more is needed.

And remember, no matter what your kids have agreed to, they Will find a way of shirking their responsibility and in the end, the pet or pets, will be Your problem. So make sure that you take part in the selection process, and remember to have fun with your new pet!! 

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